Monday, April 21, 2014

If you want to be an elephant, then nothing can stop you from being an elephant!







Hello again! I have struggled whole my life with low self confidence, and I have grown up to be a confident teen who knows how to party! I know how to fail and succeed. I know what I need to do to be happy when I'm sad (I have lots of Disney movies).So now I'll teach you (yes, you!) How to get good self confidence.

STEP ONE :

Eat a lot of junk food!!
NOnonono. I was just joking. Eat healthy food like carrots and apples and...
What I was going to say is that you should get to know yourself.
 Take out a piece of paper and write down ten good qualities you have, then five bad things about you next to the first list. Then you should look at both lists and think about what qualities you can develop, both positive and negative. You must learn to accept each side of yourself.

 STEP TWO:
 Start giving compliments to other people. Accept them and they will accept you. If others like you you will start to like yourself. They will remember you as a nice person, and it does not take long until it starts to rain compliments on you. 

 STEP THREE:
 Just be yourself. You know what you like and do not like. Try new things and don't think about what others think. Instead remember that you have a chance to be happy, and you should take it!

 STEP FOUR:
 Follow steps one, two and three XD
 
(Sources: own experience :D)

 
I'm no psychologist, and I am very bad these things. I'm just an ordinary (but unique) girl who wants to share her own experiences of life to their fine blog readers.
Hope I could be helpful, and if not, you can just comment how bad my advice is. I want to challenge my self-confidence, so if you have anything negative to say, say it now :D


See what I did here, since I have just started being obsessed with the divergent-fandom, I just had to make four different steps. Because who doesn't love Four? 
Oh Tobias.... 




Byee!!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

You are such a smart girl!
Lots of love to you!